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Key February 2012
Couples Refresher Group:
Continue improving your relationship in this small, cost-efficient group over four Sunday afternoons, 2-4pm.
Couples Group:
Solve your relationship issues with your spouse in this small, cost-efficient group over 4 Mon evenings, 7:30-9pm
Open to new or existing clients
NVC Foundations II:
Learn or review the four steps in speaking NVC over four Tuesday evening classes., 7:30-9pm.

Couples Pleasure Class:
Spend a Sunday afternoon learning what comes after NVC solves your conflicts? PLEASURE! Come alone or with your spouse, and learn how to enjoy connecting with your spouse.Feb 25, 2-5:30pm

 
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Key March & April 2012
Couples Pleasure Course:
What comes after NVC solves your conflicts? PLEASURE! Come alone or with your spouse, and spend four Monday evenings learning how to enjoy connecting with your spouse, 7:30-9pm.
NVC Foundations III:
You'll get deep practice learning the NVC listening skill of empathy over five Tuesday evening classes. 7:30-9pm.
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How Couples Can Avoid/Resolve Conflict:
Learn 5 Simple Skills

at the Studio at the Kalyana Center (formerly the Center For Oneness)
124 Sibley Ave, Ardmore, PA 19003

All couples have disagreements, but why?

Did you know that research now shows the single best indicator of divorce is the way a couple speaks to each other?

In this class we'll explain what causes conflict, and teach you a few easy-to-learn techniques that will turn 80% of those potential arguments into opportunities for greater intimacy, instead of frustration and anger.

We'll share with you our skills as professional couples mediators and NVC* instructors.

Bring your spouse or come alone.

This class will also be helpful for people between relationships seeking to improve their partnership skills.

Cost: $19/person in advance (click here to register online); $29 at the door
When: Wed, Feb 8th, 2012 7:30-9:30pm

 
Pleasure Class for Couples:
What's After NVC!

So NVC has resolved your conflicts, what's next?

The Pleasure Course!

Couples often come to Max with problems and issues that need resolving. Even after working through the Teamwork Mediation method, a lot of couples still have their focus on solving problems and keeping the peace.

But that's not why you got married, was it? NO! You wanted fun, pleasure, intimacy. So here is a cost-effective way for your and your spouse to learn the next set of skills after NVC: how to enjoy your spouse and your marriage.

This 3.5 hour class will teach you some new communication skills and games you can take home with you. (Note: no touching, or anything else which would be embarrasing for anyone - just a much more fun version of NVC-like communication techniques which will take your marriage to the next level.)

$100 includes you and your spouse!

Space is limited, so click below to register and pay online:

When:
Monday February 25, 2012
2:00 to 5:30 PM

Where:
Rivers Manor
508 E Sedgwick St
Philadelphia, PA 19119
(Note: For couples interested in deepening their pleasurable connection, we're running a four-week version of this class starting March 12th on Mondays from 7:30-9pm.)
 
 

Couples Mediation Group
Marriage Mediation
At a fraction the cost

 

Series of 4 Sessions

You and your spouse can join in this Mon nite class 7:30-9pm Feb 6-27th.

Each couple will get the same help from Max, The Marriage Mediator, that private session couples get for $200/session.

Questions? Call or email Max. But hurry! Starts Feb 6th!.

$200 includes four sessions for you and your spouse!

Space is limited, so click below to register and pay online:

When:
Monday's 7:30-9pm
Feb 6, 13, 20 and 27th

Where:
Your Home!
 
     
     
 
Couples Refresher Weekly Group
Keep working your issues in a group setting

If you've studied NVC or done Marriage Mediation with Max in the past, this Sunday afternoon event is the perfect way to recommit to your relationship.

We're learning new tools all the time, and we'll be teaching you some new skills, like:

This is a great way to keep working on your issues in a cost-effective, group setting. Everyone present will get some time each session. Couples report that they learn as much or more during the time they are watching other couples work on their issues - and it's a lot easier to listen to them!

Come alone or bring your spouse! The cost is the same:

Our Price: $200 for four sessions.

The $50/session includes you and your spouse!

Space is limited, so click below to register and pay online:

When:
Sunday's Feb 5, 12, 19 & 26
2:00 to 4:00 PM

Where:
Rivers Manor
508 E Sedgwick St
Philadelphia, PA 19119
 
     
     
 
At the Mt. Airy Learning Tree
(Click on the Date to register thru MALT)
All classes at Rivers Manor, 508 E Sedgwick St, Mt Airy, Phila 19119
unless otherwise mentioned
  Led by Max Rivers    
   
 
NLP for Parents and Teachers:
Trance-form Unruly Children with a Few Easy Skills

 

2:00-
4:00pm
19
Feb

Course Number: 12WFH06

This class will teach you how to use simple Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) techniques to help children relax, focus and become attentive listeners and learners.

NLP will help you choose language that can help your children's open, creative, curious part of their minds (the unconscious) come to the surface.

Children spend most of their awake time (and all of their sleep time) in this state.

This class will teach you how to guide your child, or even a whole class of children into this naturally receptive state with your choice of words, tone, etc. so they get the benefit of learning using the larger, more receptive part of their brains.

In one or two well crafted sentences I can take a noisy, chaotic class and have them quietly attending to challenging, brand new information - participating calmly and feeling deeply involved. This should be a required class for all teachers and parents.

$19. Free to Philadelphia Public School teachers - call the MALT office to register.

Making More of your Marriage

 

7:30-
9:30pm
08
Mar

Remember your wedding? Those first years? How special and important your marriage was to both of you?

It is still that precious, and still has all that potential and more!

If you've been too busy or are just baffled about how to find the fun in your marriage, we'll play three communication games for couples that are proven to be easy, safe and lots of fun. And they will teach you some skills which you can take home.

If your spouse is reticent, ask them to come for the snacks - they won't have to participate - just observing will give them ideas about what you want and how to give it to you. (Committed unmarried couples are also welcome).

Couples Fee $29.00

 

   
 

Info:Register with MALT by clicking here for Adult Education Classes Philadelphia

   
 
     
 

To start the Winter season up right we're offering our
HOTTEST DEALS
to warm you up

for
Marriage Mediation

 
Start with $50 off your first session,
for anyone who comes in for a first session in January.
   
 
Take off as much as another $150/session
by helping us with our new book:
"Tired of Having the Same Old Argument"
and selecting from various options, such as doing video interviews after each session.

As always, your first session is guaranteed - if either of you isn't completely satisfied, there's no charge for the session.

 
  As always, Onsite childcare is available.
   
 
To take advantage of this one-month special offer, call Max at 215-266-0598 or
email him at RiversMediation@aol.com
 
     
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Foundations of NVC II: Tuesday Night Practice Class
Feb 7th -28th, 2012
  Led by Max Rivers    
 

Learn a new skill each week
&
Practice what you learn.

We'll go through one chapter each week of Marshall Rosenberg's book: "Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life."

Class is designed so you can drop in any time, though students who take the whole class report life-changing results!

   
    When: Every Tues Night starting Feb 7th, 2012 (see Calendar)    
    Time: 7:30-9pm; (7:15pm for free intro video)    
    Where: Rivers Manor, 508 E. Sedgwick St., Mt. Airy, Phila PA 19119    
    Requirement: None - it is recommended you take Foundations I, but not required. Join any time.    
    Cost: $20/class.    
 

Your First Class Special Offer: If this is your first NVC Class, it's free!

Package Deal Special Offer: $60 for four classes to anyone who pays before the start of the first class. $70 if you pay for all four on the first class or $80 if you pay for every class.
Click here to register and pay online to get the discount!

When:
Tuesday's 7:30-9pm
Feb 1, 14, 21, 28

Where:
Rivers Manor
508 E. Sedgwick St, Phila 19119

 

Foundations 1 members Special Offer: $50 for Foundations II classes if prepaid.

   
 

Info: Questions? Contact 215.266.0598 or RiversMediation@aol.com

Student Review:

I just want to thank you again for the NVC classes that I took back in 2009 ... I feel like it has completely changed MY LIFE in a good way! :-)

I keep meaning to thank you. 2010 was really a good year for me after those classes ... it's so much easier to connect with people,

easier to resolve my own internal conflicts, and my friends comment on how calm and empathetic I am in a crisis and they seem to rely on me more often for someone to talk to. To be honest I haven't been consciously "trying to use NVC" ... it just affected my perspective in a very good and peaceful way.

-Janie

 

   

Student Review:

My work is paying off and I am able to provide some comfort and reassurance and empathic listening to my father and mother....And my brother and I also finding ways to connect and share responsibility and offer support to each other. My clear expression of my needs, and willingness to listen to his, and growing ability to make clear requests is making a huge difference...Thanks for your part in my becoming more "resourced".

Student Review:

I appreciate you and our entire class for the journey we have embarked upon. It feels important and infinitely valuable and life affirming and oh my God am I really saying this: FUN!!!!!

 

 
 
 

Foundations of NVC III:
Tuesday
Nights:
Deep Empathy
Mar13-Apr10 2012
5 Weeks

 
Led by: Max Rivers
   
 

 

Listening is the most powerful skill you can have to avoid conflict, and create intimacy.

Class is designed so you can drop in any time, though students who take the whole class report life-changing results!

   
   
When: Every Tues Night starting March 13, 2012
   
   
Time: 7:30-9:30pm
   
   
Where: Rivers Manor, 508 E. Sedgwick St., Mt. Airy, Phila PA 19119
   
   
Requirement: None. Join any time.
   
   
Cost: $25/class.
   
 

When:
Tuesday's 7:30-9pm
Mar 13,20,27 Apr 3,10

Where:
Rivers Manor
508 E. Sedgwick St, Phila 19119
 
 
Info: Questions? Contact 215.266.0598 or RiversMediation@aol.com
   

Student Review:

I am grateful for the skills and insights I have developed through my study and practice of NVC...My Christmas visit with my parents was the most peaceful, and mutually satisfying and appreciative one to date and almost entirely free from the usual agonizing conflict. There were many moments of deep sharing and understanding and I was able to take none of the occasional judgmental comments personally. Miraculous. I appreciate your contribution to my progress...

 
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Leveraging Your Influence Using NVC
a new program with Miki Kashtan

East Coast: Three 6-day residential intensive retreats over 8 months with opportunities for online learning and for smaller groups to engage in projects and connection in between (conference calls or in person, depending on where you live)

The vision of the program is to delve deeply into the practice of living the consciousness and principles of NVC using a natural language approach and leveraging our influence by using NVC as the "organizing principle" for our work in the world. Rather than focus on specific skills to teach NVC formally, we intend to focus on all the real-life situations in which using NVC can move us and our environment closer to the dream of a needs-based world. We start with where we are, by inspiring others, by transforming conflict to mutual understanding, and by forging connections and alliances through our shared human needs.

For example - "If I'm a teacher, how can I more fully live NVC with my students? If I'm a doctor.... a lawyer.... a minister .... a spouse.... a professional athlete... a midwife - how can I live NVC so fully that all the people I meet each day are affected by its profound gifts? How do I infuse my work and play so that NVC consciousness becomes the common denominator in all my relationships?" We are excited to imagine a world like this! A world in which each of us could act in the sacred role of the midwife and help bring greater NVC presence to all the areas of life our personal worlds touch.

Because of the nature of this program, we envision a community made up of a range of NVC experience. We envision having some very experienced NVC practitioners and trainers who are eager to naturalize their use of NVC and become free, again, to meet and engage with people who are not necessarily NVC people. We also imagine having some people who have a deep appreciation of the NVC frame of reference, and some familiarity with the tools without a whole lot of formal experience. The mix worked wonderfully at the retreat last August when this program was "conceived."

This program is designed to be co-created from their inception by Miki and all the participants in each program. This means aiming for a radical level of vulnerability and trust, particularly around issues of tuition, money and sustainability, gift economy, inclusion, learning goals, and honesty regarding feedback and commitment to holding all needs with deep care. We are excited to discover the extent to which we can create a community that would manifest such a dream together while supporting all of us to become a resource to those around us and the world! We hold no limit on what we can create together. We might just become that small group of individuals that Margaret Mead refers to in her famous quote.

Cost: Both programs are designed to be run on a semi-gift-economy basis. We plan for the final decisions about contributions to be made within the context of the community that is created for the program. We are aiming for 25 or more people in each of the programs, with a minimum tuition of $2,400 and $1,200 respectively. At the same time, it is our expectation that some people will join either program without any ability to contribute towards tuition, and that some others will contribute significantly above the minimum amount to make the program sustainable.

In addition to tuition, the East Coast program includes some out-of-pocket expenses. Each retreat costs $400 for room and board, payable directly to the Abode. In addition, Miki's transportation and room and board, the facility fee, supplies, and possibly room and board for assistants are a shared responsibility of all participants, and those costs will be handled in a manner similar to the tuition.

Additional information:
We are scheduling two informational calls for prospective participants.

Sun, Dec 4, 1pm Pacific/4pm Eastern, click here to register
Wed, Dec 14, 5pm Pacific/8pm Eastern, click here to register

In addition, you can contact Sarah Proechel at serafinajp@netzero.net or Karen Murphy at kmmurphy1271@gmail.com if you have specific questions you want answered about the East Coast program, and the BayNVC office at register@baynvc.org for questions about the West Coast program.

Dates and registration information for the East Coast Program:
The retreat gatherings will take place at The Abode in New Lebanon, NY.

The dates are: April 13-18, August 17-22, and November 9-14, 2012. The online and conference calls part will be created and facilitated by the community.

Although the program is open to all, we are putting anyone without prior retreat experience with Miki on a waiting list until February 15, 2012.

If you would like to join the program, we urge you to act quickly, as we have had a surge of interest in the program. We request a deposit of $800 or more to reserve your place. More will be greatly welcome, as we anticipate some people won't be able to come up with the full $800. Please send a check made out to BayNVC, along with your name and full contact information including email and phone number, to Karen Murphy, 4113 Old Route 22, Brewster, NY 10509. If this is not an option for you, please be in touch with Karen Murphy at kmmurphy1271@gmail.com or 917-608-9345 to discuss other options.


 

 


     

     

     

     

     






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